One of the best pieces of advice I got when I had our 2nd child was from a friend in our ward in Lehi. She said to occasionally tell the baby "no." This way, the older child isn't always being told "no" and the older child can see what great things he can do because he's bigger. For example, you can say "No Baby, you can't have chicken. You're too little." Or, "No Baby, only big kids can watch TV." This little piece of advice worked wonders on C, who had only turned 2 just days before S was born. It showed him all the cool things he could do because he was a big boy. Well, we are continuing with this with telling MK "no" for whatever things we think of. This has been especially helpful with S's potty training.
Because I started telling MK "no" for things like food, toys, playing at playground, playing with friends, etc., the boys picked up on this and started to tell her "no" as well. But, they took this a bit farther. They have started to pretend to be MK and talk in a high pitched voice for her. Everyday, they are entertaining us with funny things that MK is supposedly asking for or saying. They laugh at themselves and then will turn to me or R and say "That's what she said."
I wonder if this is what Micheal at "The Office" has been trying to say...
3 comments:
Hey there lady! I haven't talked to you in forever!!!!!! You've had another kid since we last talked! Can I just tell you that you're kids are the stinking cutest tots on earth!?!?!? I hope you're doing well (sounds like it). Love you to bits and send you many hugs!
Gosh, who KNOWS what MK is actually saying, according to the boys. I can just 'see' the wheels turning in their heads with their 'coversations' with MK. Quite the scapegoat, eh? I do like the concept of focusing on what the boys CAN do instead of what they can't. Great idea.
So fun getting to see you this morning. Hope everyone faired well at home while Mommy played. ok I loved the picture of C holding Mk and S with the dinosaur jacket and green hat! And the one where the three of them are laying on their backs on the blanket. What beautiful babies you have. Tell R thanks for sharing you this am. :)
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